tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10095069.post114909133866908605..comments2023-09-21T10:25:22.188-04:00Comments on Divinities: Who KnowsLauriehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04471346127395431889noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10095069.post-1149212092575776552006-06-01T21:34:00.000-04:002006-06-01T21:34:00.000-04:00Oooh. It absolutely kills Antonio to know that I'...Oooh. It absolutely kills Antonio to know that I'm not looking to have my problems solved, I just enjoy complaining. Kills him!!<BR/><BR/>That wedding thing completely blows. It is indeed the elephant in the room. One of my friends recently had a wedding with like 700 guests. Both of their families are so big that they couldn't invite some of our really good friends from college that always turn up at group dinners and other peoples' baby showers and bridal showers and stuff.<BR/><BR/>Awkward city.<BR/><BR/>No one ever offered anyone an explanation.<BR/><BR/>I heard something once that who you invite to your wedding doesn't reflect who your friends are, but who you want your friends to be in the future.<BR/><BR/>My guess in your situation is the same as yours, that you weren't enough on the radar when the guest lists were being made (and you know they were prob. being made before they even got engaged)...still its weird.<BR/><BR/>Just last week I was having lunch with a girl who is a friend of a friend of my sister's. I barely knokw her. It was only our third lunch together. She'd gotten married a few weeks prior in a teeny tiny ceremony with only family. Still, I felt quite odd not having been invited, even though there is no reason I would've been.portuguesa novahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03664291195500818577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10095069.post-1149203895069388362006-06-01T19:18:00.000-04:002006-06-01T19:18:00.000-04:00All the way through this story I was thinking this...All the way through this story I was thinking this was a conversation you should have had with another woman. She would have replied with something appropriate like "Oh, what a bitch". Men are SO not good at that! You don't always want advice, sometimes you want someone to agree that you're right for feeling the way you do! <BR/><BR/>Oh, and by the way, I am now having huge feelings of guilt for asking a work colleague to assist me with printing my wedding invites 7 years ago and not inviting her to my wedding...theotherbearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12592106243268321644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10095069.post-1149202844151069722006-06-01T19:00:00.000-04:002006-06-01T19:00:00.000-04:00They do problem solve. It's true.I love a good bit...They do problem solve. It's true.<BR/><BR/>I love a good bitchfest, but not gonna happen with a man. I think it baffles them.Trishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03982763008510807382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10095069.post-1149194876752525242006-06-01T16:47:00.000-04:002006-06-01T16:47:00.000-04:00I am with Michele and Cheetrah- To have you invol...I am with Michele and Cheetrah- To have you involved in the details, ask your opinion and do her favors.. that is SOOOOOO rude and low class. She really should be embarrassed!Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862585465808527226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10095069.post-1149189299098237702006-06-01T15:14:00.000-04:002006-06-01T15:14:00.000-04:00that coworker is plain rude. she shouldn't talk ab...that coworker is plain rude. she shouldn't talk about the wedding with you, if she doesn't invite you. Hell you addressed envelopes for her. That's just shady in my opinion. <BR/><BR/>And yeah, men aren't good for venting. Sometimes it's more frustrating to share with them cause they just don't get the need to bitch like a girlfriend would. I once got an email called The Rules (According to Men). One of them basically said, tell us your problems when you want a solution. Go to your girlfriends if you want to bitch.Cheetarah1980https://www.blogger.com/profile/07030323484936160187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10095069.post-1149184031670095772006-06-01T13:47:00.000-04:002006-06-01T13:47:00.000-04:00It is kind of rude to include you SO much in all t...It is kind of rude to include you SO much in all the wedding details and then not even aknowledge that you are not invited! I would not go on and on about wedding stuff to someone I was not going to invite!Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11985989595581333612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10095069.post-1149172920865443672006-06-01T10:42:00.000-04:002006-06-01T10:42:00.000-04:00LOL, I can't tell you how many times I've wanted t...LOL, I can't tell you how many times I've wanted to strangle hubby with his "advice"...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, you should both read it, it talks about that.<BR/><BR/>I totally agree about being snubbed on the wedding, only because she involved you so much. An apology would have been nice...I'd feel the same as you. Try not to let it bother you tooooo much...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com